Saying no to

femme fatale

A femme fatale

fĕm″ fə-tăl′, -täl′, făm″ noun

What is a femme fatale?

A femme fatale is-

An attractive, alluring  seductive woman, especially one who leads men into compromising and dangerous situations.

This is the way of the culture and world.

Weaponized Femininity and Womanhood examples includes but not limited to:

(The Stallion, Beyonce, Kardashians and Cardi B mentality.  All are synonymous with Harpy and Jezebel behaviors. ) 

They use sex and provocative clothes to seduce men and women and children. They have a wide influence of perversion. Have you noticed the increase in porn consumption, infidelity, premarital sex, homosexuality, and sexually transmitted disease. 

Women like these and many less obvious examples lay and wait to sink their teeth in to their unsuspecting prey. They wear fake smiles as they manipulate and run churches world wide from a distance. All under the disguise of faux submission. You know who you are!

These distorted examples of womanhood are lies waiting to be torn down.

We are living in a proud lascivious world and this is one of the many hurdles we must address and dismantle. 

I want to encourage you to do your part to break the cycle of cultural nonsense including femme fatale, immodesty, lack of discretion, and impurity. 

I also want to caution you not to follow trends. One trend for example is to put your family on the internet. And I don’t mean posting something that has to do with your family. I mean you get to have a very intimate look into the lives of complete strangers. The more you see the more they get paid to show. Please stop putting your whole lives on the internet. 

This is a subtle and seductive lure to show more and more until you become an influencer worthy of its hire. 

Think about who can see your updates and life events. Then imagine the huge population of perverted people indulging secretly in your life. Gross right?

Protect your families at all costs.

Ladies, another push back and active fight against the darkness of this age is to refuse to raise “maneaters. The “I don’t need a man,” “I can do bad all by myself mentalities.”

It is femme fatale indoctrination of our young daughters. Girls who were entrusted by God to care for and raise to love, serve, honor, and obey God. 

I’ve seen online were women dress proactively parading around with their young toddlers in matching outfits. Grooming their own children to show their bodies and walk to entice men. It’s sickening

The Bible warns in- Matthew 18:6

New King James Vebrsion

6 “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

Weaponized Nurturing 

Is another form of weaponized femininity. It happens with the ,withholding of nurturing, lacking to develop emotional connections, hugs, and more. All due to anger, frustration, or, past traumas from your childhood.

Fight against it!

Another area is-

Using Your Body Against Your Husband 

Random flash back–

I was at work a long time ago when I worked outside of the home. I work at a local pharmacy.

A woman came in and asked for me to help her find something. She started divulging that it was her husband’s birthday coming up and she planned to be intimate. She stressed since it was his birthday.  I was dumbfounded.  How in the world can you survive being intimate only a time or two a year?

I sadly get told things from strangers that say I’m easy to talk to.

Sex regularly with your husband should be the norm. 

Your body belongs to your husband. Its a tool of torture. If you lord over him with it. Give to you your husband what is his!!!!! Satisfy him so that your husband doesn’t find supplements. 

Scripture says:

 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 ESV

It is attractive to men to see a woman take care of herself. Walk, hit the gym regularly, do jumping jacks, etc. 

Taking care of yourself is a turn on ladies. Genuine non- competitive care of yourself helps marriages.

Conditioning your body regularly for health and not for extra marital lure. 

Holiness and Biblical Womanhood and Femininity is not a way of living for older women, it’s for all women in all walks of life. Teach your daughter to submit, and obey Christ so she will one day submit to their husbands.

Teach your daughters to clean and cook. Teach your daughters not to use her tears, body, and meals to manipulate a man. Feminism’s poisons have been ingrained into life so much so fight against it with all you have and all you are.

Spoiler alert the ” I’m an independent woman I don’t need a man attitude. Is an example of another destructive mindset. The I can do anything a man can do attitudes are just not Biblical.  Biblical womanhood is the standard not all these warped societal norms need to be stopped.

God has given us everything we need to be protected from the schemes of Satan. We fall prey when we negate to put on the whole armor of God. Or chose not to have active faith.

As we find ourselves going the world’s way.

Scripture says:

Ephesians 6:10-19 ESV

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, Ephesians 6:10-19 ESV

Another area to cover is- 

Weaponized Arrogance 

Scoffing

But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine. Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. 

Don’t scoff at correction 

A scoffer does not like to be reproved; he will not go to the wise. Proverbs 15:12 ESV

The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles]. Proverbs 14:1 AMP

Weaponized Commitment Too busy screams-Quantity over quality 

Weaponized Womanhood regarding commitments also prioritizes activities over family togetherness and puts God dead last if in the equation at all.

 Weaponized Commitments also is in the elevation of our desires. Our desires shouldn’t be put above what God desires for you. Don’t allow your days to be too full of meaningful time with the Lord, with your husband/family, or for you to get recharged. 

A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22 ESV

Biblical Wives Don’t Degrade 

You are trusted with the most intimate parts of your husband’s life. You should take this position seriously. You should not take advantage of this position to use it to tear down your husband or family.

The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down. Proverbs 14:1 ESV

Instead

Titus 2:1-5 ESV

I am absolutely tired of it seeming like the older women are to be discarded in churches instead of honored and listened to. We are not obeying scripture if we are not looking to the older women for instruction, wisdom, and practical application of our day  to day tasks.

Psalm 51:10 “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me”

Ending Prayer

Lord God, evil is seductive and relentless however we know you are our protection in this fallen world. As the world gets darker let your light get stronger even brighter Lord, we are here for such a time as this, and I pray for you to cleanse our hearts and minds in your name Jesus. Let us not conform to the patterns of this world Lord. Help us detox from the worlds ways in Jesus name. Amen.