Do you often have to figure out how you got back to this same place?
Are you experiencing feelings of discouragement and exhaustion.
Are you easily angred lately?
Are you often easily offended?
Are you short with your husband or children?
Are you in a poor disposition all in the name of Christianity?
Do you find yourself saying things that are damaging!
Ladies stop destroying your hope by repeating the lies of satan.
Let us be architectural wordsmiths forging right perspectives on the things that go on in our lives. Instead of demolitionist skillfully laying down the very things that will destroy our latest victories.
We are living in a time where we can not afford to lend our words and power to satan to exploit.
Don’t let your circumstances get you to repeat the wrong things in your home. Don’t be the vessel to tear down your own home with your own hands.
Remember ladies what the Bible says-
2 Corinthians 10:3-6
3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. 4 For the weapons of our warfare are not [a]carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, 5 casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, 6 and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled.
The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.
Proverbs 14:1 ESV
Remember who you serve ladies. The Lord God Almighty the Lord God mighty in battle.
Our words can be like seeds for life or envenomed drops of poison.
When you make service in your home transactional you lose the whole purpose of why you do what you do.
Serve your husband and children out of pure love and devotion to Jesus Christ and appreciation for what God entrusted to you.
Watch your mouth. Take notice of what you say most often. See what you let escape while frustrated, sick or scared. Is it discouraging, self- depreciating lies dressed up as truths? It is the list of all the ways you’ve fallen short in the day?
Is what is rehearsed stealing, killing, and destroying things in your life?
The answer is found in you coming clean before our almighty God then applying the scriptures to your life.
Don’t be ignorant of the devils devices ladies.
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 ESV
Submit to God and allow the Word of God to heal you and allow your words to match your confession of Christ and Christianity.
There is blessing in community ladies so reach out to another sister and fight to stay connected. Be encouraged to trust God cry and repeat God bless you.
Ephesians 6:Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel,
Ephesians 6:10-19 ESV
Only God knows what this year holds for each woman connected to this TrustGodCryrepeat website. As you know December was dedicated to praying specifically for you all and your families so please know that we love you all and count it a privilge to go to God on your behalf. Thank you for your continued support.
Let’s dive into today’s tough topic as the rest of the topics from now on will be tough as well so please dig your heels in and stay connected to one another.
#1 Refuse to buy into the lies of satan.
We live in a unique time in life where the ever evolving perverse alphabet community, feminism agenda and the cancel culture beacons to crush Biblical standards and and all those who uphold them into a tiny box of submission. Thats why I said dig your heels in. Refuse to be tolerant. Refuse to embrace the false doctrine of the ever so popular thou shall be nice. Refuse to conform. Refuse to not condition your bodies for battle ladies. Gain strength and enjoy aquiring grit and feminine toughness. Be determined to have more resolve than a wet paper bag. Tell the truth ladies no matter the cost. I’ve had many people come and go from my life over the last 20 years of being a Christian, but Christ has never left me nor forsaken me.
Hang in there ladies. We are in an all out war pray and keep praying!!!!!!
We have to care more for a person’s soul than we do their feelings. The Bible is offensive to those who are in sin or are living unsubmitted to it, which is sinful. Conviction should hit us all hard. Conviction brings forth repentance if we submit to Christ. We as women of God must all submit to the Word of God. We all are held to the same standard. Christ’s standard. Bible is the filter which all of our lives pass through. Whether I yell it, or I say it in a sweet angelic whisper here goes-
stop here being obstinate to the authority of Jesus Christ. We have be Christian enough to allow Christ to convict us to change. Rebellious behavior can be disguised as pure motivations which the enemy uses to deceive us into conforming to the world’s way of thinking and living.
Rebellion can come in the form of anxiety too. I had allowed myself to get distracted and I was encouraged by my husband to see my victories in Christ. He encouraged me with the Word of God and to use scripture to get my mind to rehearse truth instead of satan lies. So I’ll share them with you all.
Joshua 1:9 says
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9 NKJV
Standing firm starts with renewing your mind. Open your word and rehearse it with full conviction until you remember whose spirit dwells with you the Lord God Almighties The Lord whose mighty in battle.
Like 2 Tim. 1:7-
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. II Timothy 1:7 NKJV
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. Philippians 4:6-8 NKJV
Ps 18:29-31 NKJV
For by You I can run against a troop, By my God I can leap over a wall. As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him. For who is God, except the Lord? And who is a rock, except our God? Psalms 18:29-31 NKJV
And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.
Galatians 6:9 NKJV
Ladies, the enemy is divisively trying to separate women like never before. Don’t fall pray to his attacks. Instead know that the more we fellowship, the more we pray together, the more we read the Bible, and the more we rebuke satan the stronger and more influential we are for the kingdom of God. Warning: only the devil would get upset with the things I just said. I want to leave with this scripture :
Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.
I Corinthians 15:58 NKJV
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An attractive, alluring seductive woman, especially one who leads men into compromising and dangerous situations.
This is the way of the culture and world.
Weaponized Femininity and Womanhood examples includes but not limited to:
(The Stallion, Beyonce, Kardashians and Cardi B mentality. All are synonymous with Harpy and Jezebel behaviors. )
They use sex and provocative clothes to seduce men and women and children. They have a wide influence of perversion. Have you noticed the increase in porn consumption, infidelity, premarital sex, homosexuality, and sexually transmitted disease.
Women like these and many less obvious examples lay and wait to sink their teeth in to their unsuspecting prey. They wear fake smiles as they manipulate and run churches world wide from a distance. All under the disguise of faux submission. You know who you are!
These distorted examples of womanhood are lies waiting to be torn down.
We are living in a proud lascivious world and this is one of the many hurdles we must address and dismantle.
I want to encourage you to do your part to break the cycle of cultural nonsense including femme fatale, immodesty, lack of discretion, and impurity.
I also want to caution you not to follow trends. One trend for example is to put your family on the internet. And I don’t mean posting something that has to do with your family. I mean you get to have a very intimate look into the lives of complete strangers. The more you see the more they get paid to show. Please stop putting your whole lives on the internet.
This is a subtle and seductive lure to show more and more until you become an influencer worthy of its hire.
Think about who can see your updates and life events. Then imagine the huge population of perverted people indulging secretly in your life. Gross right?
Protect your families at all costs.
Ladies, another push back and active fight against the darkness of this age is to refuse to raise “maneaters. The “I don’t need a man,” “I can do bad all by myself mentalities.”
It is femme fatale indoctrination of our young daughters. Girls who were entrusted by God to care for and raise to love, serve, honor, and obey God.
I’ve seen online were women dress proactively parading around with their young toddlers in matching outfits. Grooming their own children to show their bodies and walk to entice men. It’s sickening
The Bible warns in- Matthew 18:6
New King James Vebrsion
6 “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
Is another form of weaponized femininity. It happens with the ,withholding of nurturing, lacking to develop emotional connections, hugs, and more. All due to anger, frustration, or, past traumas from your childhood.
Fight against it!
Another area is-
Using Your Body Against Your Husband
Random flash back–
I was at work a long time ago when I worked outside of the home. I work at a local pharmacy.
A woman came in and asked for me to help her find something. She started divulging that it was her husband’s birthday coming up and she planned to be intimate. She stressed since it was his birthday. I was dumbfounded. How in the world can you survive being intimate only a time or two a year?
I sadly get told things from strangers that say I’m easy to talk to.
Sex regularly with your husband should be the norm.
Your body belongs to your husband. Its a tool of torture. If you lord over him with it. Give to you your husband what is his!!!!! Satisfy him so that your husband doesn’t find supplements.
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:5 ESV
It is attractive to men to see a woman take care of herself. Walk, hit the gym regularly, do jumping jacks, etc.
Taking care of yourself is a turn on ladies. Genuine non- competitive care of yourself helps marriages.
Conditioning your body regularly for health and not for extra marital lure.
Holiness and Biblical Womanhood and Femininity is not a way of living for older women, it’s for all women in all walks of life. Teach your daughter to submit, and obey Christ so she will one day submit to their husbands.
Teach your daughters to clean and cook. Teach your daughters not to use her tears, body, and meals to manipulate a man. Feminism’s poisons have been ingrained into life so much so fight against it with all you have and all you are.
Spoiler alert the ” I’m an independent woman I don’t need a man attitude. Is an example of another destructive mindset. The I can do anything a man can do attitudes are just not Biblical. Biblical womanhood is the standard not all these warped societal norms need to be stopped.
God has given us everything we need to be protected from the schemes of Satan. We fall prey when we negate to put on the whole armor of God. Or chose not to have active faith.
As we find ourselves going the world’s way.
Ephesians 6:10-19 ESV
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, Ephesians 6:10-19 ESV
Another area to cover is-
But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine. Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
Don’t scoff at correction
A scoffer does not like to be reproved; he will not go to the wise. Proverbs 15:12 ESV
The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], But the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles]. Proverbs 14:1 AMP
Weaponized Commitment Too busy screams-Quantity over quality
Weaponized Womanhood regarding commitments also prioritizes activities over family togetherness and puts God dead last if in the equation at all.
Weaponized Commitments also is in the elevation of our desires. Our desires shouldn’t be put above what God desires for you. Don’t allow your days to be too full of meaningful time with the Lord, with your husband/family, or for you to get recharged.
A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22 ESV
Biblical Wives Don’t Degrade
You are trusted with the most intimate parts of your husband’s life. You should take this position seriously. You should not take advantage of this position to use it to tear down your husband or family.
The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down. Proverbs 14:1 ESV
Titus 2:1-5 ESV
I am absolutely tired of it seeming like the older women are to be discarded in churches instead of honored and listened to. We are not obeying scripture if we are not looking to the older women for instruction, wisdom, and practical application of our day to day tasks.
Psalm 51:10 “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me”
Lord God, evil is seductive and relentless however we know you are our protection in this fallen world. As the world gets darker let your light get stronger even brighter Lord, we are here for such a time as this, and I pray for you to cleanse our hearts and minds in your name Jesus. Let us not conform to the patterns of this world Lord. Help us detox from the worlds ways in Jesus name. Amen.
As we go into a month of prayer next month. I want to hopefully give a glimmer of hope through remembering the goodness of God.
I had a wrestling of sorts lately between not truly understanding how to figure out the next step in some areas of my life and overly focusing on things I can’t control.
My deepest desires are to please God in every area of my life. I know a few areas where the surrendering hasn’t happened because of the fact that my death grip prevented it. That is until today. I was encouraged to look back and remember.
Many times life does what it does and seems to give us some spiritual amnesia. Forgetting what our Almighty God has already triumphantly done.
What can’t God do?
Ladies, don’t lose heart.
Psalms 27:13-14 NKJV
I would have lost heart, unless I had believed That I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living. Wait on the Lord; Be of good courage, And He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the Lord!
I have seen the Lord show out in my life. I choose to remember. The almost 19 years of marriage. Experiencing God healing my body from several major illnesses. Allowing the news it was physically impossible for me to conceive be reversed as I found out that I was pregnant with our oldest child. I’ve experienced God providing food while making our last meal that was in our fridge and giving our baby most of it all to have a friend surprise us with something to eat. Seeing our oldest in the hospital declining and they doctors saying there’s nothing left to do. Then God turned it completely around. I remember being at the hospital as they tried to convince me that I was miscarrying. This was followed by 8 more months of he’s not viable then being born with no health issues and is healthly and almost 12 years old. I experienced God reverse a permanent procedure which allowed us to conceive our youngest. I experienced God deepen my faith as He held us as we heard she needs surgery or she’ll die. The surgery could kill her as well.
So many things to reccount too many for this short time.
He then miraculously keeping her and us through surgery. Keeping life together through her heart surgery and then bringing her off of life support after being on it for 5 days.
Remember how Christ saved you and kept you.
How He Loved you when you were in some of the worst times of your life. Also how He held me through the losses of loved ones including losing three children.
With Christ the impossible becomes possible!
Matt. 19:26 says
But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26 NKJV
Remember ladies !
Draw up God’s resume’ and see that He’s more than capable of handling any situation that comes up in your life.
Ps 91:1-6 says
He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High Shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.” Surely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler And from the perilous pestilence. He shall cover you with His feathers, And under His wings you shall take refuge; His truth shall be your shield and buckler. You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, Nor of the arrow that flies by day, Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, Nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday.
Psalms 91:1-6 NKJV
Don’t let what you see limit how far God can take you .
I’m reminded of a scene from Facing the Giants where the boy said he couldn’t carry a teammate to the desire location by the goal post because the person was too heavy to carry. The coach blindfolded him and told him to keep going and every time it seemed like he was going to give up he kept saying this: