Hey ladies this is Nyoka Hall and I want to welcome to the Trust God. Cry. Repeat podcast. A fresh new podcast for your encouragement.

I want to introduce my oldest blessing of a daughter Ava who will be my co host today says hi to the ladies.

Hey trust God cry repeat-ple

She gets the corniness honestly.

Again welcome to the 4th installment of Sever the Rope to feminism series entitled “Teen-aged Not teenager.” 

Let’s talk about the top 10 things to debunk and remind your teen not to follow. 

Let’s dive in!

Let’s talk about where the term teen aged not teenager comes from . Ava do you remember me saying very early in your life that you would never be a teenager? You joked and said is that a threat?

Answer? On podcast

 I then tried to instill the core values of Biblical Womanhood and continue daily then.

I have observed over the years that many Christian households get really lax in the area of teen aged living. They somehow are convinced the world way is filled with the gold standard on how somehow they created thinks acts, lives, and thinks. 

Only God knows so let’s take a look at these top 10 topics and finish up with the truth of God’s World.

Ladies, the things I am about to say are to expose satan, and in no way meant to go against  anything your husband has established for your households. I am a submissive wife, and I want to always honor God in what I share. 

Let’s dive in! 

According to Psychologytoday.com and a few other secular cites like the CDC.gov, and wildhearts.com

#1 – Teenagers will be rebellious 

Ava’s experience at 12

Hurt by persons response.

God’s truth-Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Proverbs 22:6 NKJV

I’ve heard many add-ons to this scripture that give a disclaimer but I’m stating the truth. We are commanded to train them up. This is not dropping them off for others to train them i.e youth groups, camps, ect. We should be training alongside our husbands in fellowship with our local church and likeminded believers. Then those things I mentioned before become reinforcements of truth. Then We are to train them in righteousness. 

Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him.

Proverbs 22:15 NKJV

I remember starting with Ava explaining how we are entrusted by God to shape this living of eternal beings for His glory and telling her about the beauty of being a stay-at-home mom and home educator. It was hard seeing how feminism had already tried to infiltrate her mind early on with her short stint in brick and mortar “schools.” 

Do you remember how unglamorous it seemed at 1st?

Where did you get these ideas?

Do you remember the head butting we experienced before you saw the ploys of satans agenda?

#2- Teens should not be talked how they dress, and present themselves. Psychology today says that interfereing with the way your teen dresses rather Gothic, provocative, or any other way will inevitably affect their normal behavior growth and development. 

God’s truth- 

in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works.

I Timothy 2:9‭-‬10 NKJV

We not that the goal is modesty because it is a reflection of ones heart. 

Do you remember the spike boots?

 What was your emotions like during that time?

What was the influences pushing for these emotions?

But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

I Samuel 16:7 NKJV

Prove me, O Lord, and try me; test my heart and my mind.Psalm 26:2 ESV

Its a reflection of the heart. What’s inside will show outside. Tend to the heart. 

#3- Teens are going to have sex.

Recent question that floored me.

Would I like to put my daughter on birth  control because of age not activity. 

We stand for purity. Waiting until marriage is the Godly standard and we stand united.

How did that question make you feel? 

God’s truth-How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word.

Psalm 119:9 ESV

Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.

1 Timothy 4:12 ESV

For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor,

1 Thessalonians 4:3‭-‬4 ESV

So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

2 Timothy 2:22 ESV

But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.

Ephesians 5:3 ESV

For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness.

1 Thessalonians 4:7 ESV

#4- Teens are lazy/Unmotivated 

God’s truth-Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.

Colossians 3:20 ESV

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.

Ephesians 6:1 ESV

Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise. Without having any chief, officer, or ruler, she prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest. How long will you lie there, O sluggard? When will you arise from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want like an armed man.

Proverbs 6:6‭-‬11 ESV

Her responses to questions on podcast.

How have you dealt with slothfulness?

What inspired these feelings?

#5- Depression is a normal thing teens go through

God’s truth-Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!

Psalm 139:23 ESV

For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, being ready to punish every disobedience, when your obedience is complete.

2 Corinthians 10:4‭-‬6 ESV

#6- Teens need more privacy and less parental involvement 

God’s word-

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

Ephesians 2:10 ESV

The world wants us to allow limited interaction so that they have our children’s full focus. 

for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world.

#7- Teens communicating less is normal given all the changes they are going through.

Do you feel more or less loved without rules and parental interactions?

The job of training is on going, and the world knows how important it is to get kids at a young age so its even more important to sever its ties to influence in our teens lives. 

One example we can use is canceling Disney+ after the onslaught of evil, impurity, lgbt …. agenda and more. We could not willingly fund the attacks on our on children.  We have to remember If we aren’t teaching and training them in righteousness the world is indoctrinating with unrighteousness.

God’s truth- 

“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Deuteronomy 6:4‭-‬9 ESV

Jesus should be all around. We should be enjoying growing in Christ as we live to honor and glorify Him.

#8 Conformity is ok to keep stay relevant socially and to avoid FoMo, and peer pressure.

No to the floss example. 

From a young age do you remember getting kicked out of class for standing up for saying there is no santa!

Conformity has never been acceptable in our home and shouldn’t be a standard for young ladies.

God’s truth- Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, But the Lord weighs the hearts.

Proverbs 21:2 NKJV

When I thought, “My foot slips,” your steadfast love, O Lord, held me up.

Psalm 94:18 ESV

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Romans 12:2 ESV

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

1 John 2:15 ESV

But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content.

1 Timothy 6:7‭-‬8 ESV

The push is real to plant the seed of comparision, discontentment and jealousy.

For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.

James 3:16 ESV

If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.

John 15:19 ESV

For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.

Romans 8:5‭-‬6 ESV

#9- It is normal and healthy to push our daughters to be independent and college focused.

What do want to be when you grow up?

Response on podcast

Feminism desires girls to be independent not needing a man and to be a career focused so our girls can come out from their homes and the covering of their father’s. In this respect many find themselves in hard situations. They are now challenged to provide and usually start dating to have a covering to submit under. 

According to Wildhearts.com 1 out of every 5 college females have experienced dating violence. 67% of date rape accounted for girls 14- college aged .

God’s truth-The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Titus 2:3‭-‬5 KJV

We need to teach, educate, and train our girls to be wise, able to rightly divide the word of God, loving their husbands and children and so much more.

#10- Embracing the feminist ideologies is the way to truly uphold a Pro-Woman/Pro-Women empowerment. After all the future is female. 

What’s 

God’s truth- Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all that he does, he prospers. The wicked are not so, but are like chaff that the wind drives away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous; for the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish.

Psalm 1:1‭-‬6 ESV

Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth.

1 Timothy 4:1‭-‬3 KJV

We are to follow Christ’s way no matter what! I couldn’t cover these topics exhaustively but you can head to TrustGodCryrepeat.com a grab a copy of Did God Really Say Exposing Feminism’s Toxic Grip on Christian Women. Remember always to Trust God Cry Repeat God Bless You .